Packing Pee-Wee Heat
To summarize, 40-year-old Wayne Derkotch was arguing with the coach of his son's 6- and 7-year-old football team. No shots were fired, but what pray tell would possess a man to draw a weapon on the coach of his son's Pee Wee football team?
Playing time. Apparently, the boy wasn't getting enough of it.
Derkotch was arrested, as was a referee accused of throwing a punch at a man. It's unknown if these two incidents are related, but I just have to wonder...
Just what in the hell has gotten into people these days?
We've all heard horror stories of "little league parents," people who insist on living vicariously through their children on the field. Maybe daddy's dream of being a big-league pitcher fell through, so he's pushing Junior as hard as he can in hopes that someday, his son will be the explosive ball player he never was.
A couple months ago, we saw a parent storm onto the football field and level a 12-year-old for a late hit on his son.
And now this.
I used to scoff at the notion of banning parents from their children's games, thinking that, if I were a child, I'd want my parents in the stands cheering me on as I learn the sport of my choosing. But after this insane, baffling incident, I think it's time to revisit that notion.
Pulling a gun on a coach because your 6- or 7-year-old isn't getting enough playing time? What, are you trying to groom the next Terrell Owens?
When did a win-at-all-costs attitude permeate the little league sports landscape? When did behavior once reserved for big-time college and professional athletics become commonplace for the pre-teen crowd? I always thought little league sports were about learning the game, teaching life lessons through the all-encompassing canvas of sports. Everyone involved is looking to learn and have fun, not win it all, no matter what the cost.
Apparently, that's no longer the case.
When did it come to this? Is it because every summer, ESPN goes all happy-batty over the Little League World Series, shoving prepubescent baseball down our throats? Does it have anything to do with the individualization rampant in sports today?
Get the SportsCenter highlight, upgrade your draft status, hire a flamboyant agent, ask for the biggest contract you can, and don't forget that all-important shoe contract.
Or does it go back to my earlier point of parents wanting to live through their children? Professional athletics is such an exclusive, cut-throat club, thousands with aspirations never even sniff the opportunity to play.
In middle school, I had aspirations of being a Major League pitcher. I was gonna light up the high school ranks with my fastball, baffle college hitters with my changeup, and develop a couple breaking balls to take the majors by storm.
Maybe even start Game 1 of the World Series my rookie year.
Only it never happened. I got to tryouts in high school and quickly realized how little athletic talent I had. But does that make me want to do half the things I hear Little League parents doing?
No...instead, I decided to become a sports writer and a sportscaster in college. That way, sports is still an integral part of my life. I used to joke that God didn't give me athletic talent, just a microphone.
I hope Derkotch gets what's coming to him, because we need to change the current landscape of little league sports. I'm tired of hearing about parents fighting each other, berating officials and threatening coaches. At this level, a game is just that: a game. Things aren't cut-throat until you get to college, maybe high school.
That's how it should be, anyway.